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My Dad passed away this morning, 1933-2022
My mom passed last year September, she was 90.
He was on his third cancer, this time pancreatic. They couldn't attack that one directly due to his age and his bone marrow being largely exhausted from his second cancer, leukemia.
My parents were married for 65 years and lived in the same house in Phoenix for my entire life, moving there in '58 or '59. Now it'll be sold and gone. There's no one left in the neighborhood that I know on a first-name basis, they've all died and the kids - my contemporaries - moved away.
Russet and I were in town two weeks ago for the wedding of my middle niece, she had a ceremony at the Phoenix Zoo. She's a wedding coordinator, I expect she got a good rate. He just wasn't up to attending, so I streamed it via FaceTime to my iPad, Russet stayed home and helped him watch it. My sister took some of my mom's ashes, so she was there symbolically.
Tuesday after work, my brother called to say Dad wasn't going to last long. I got ahold of my boss and told her that the situation had become critical, and did a proverbial midnight run to Phoenix, about a 500 mile drive, getting there about 6am.
Two of his three grandchildren were here last night, we were telling stories of misdeeds and laughing by his bedside and saying our goodbyes.
I hope it brought him some peace.
He had one brother who was killed in a base accident on Guadalcanal during World War 2, four sisters who passed over the last decade or so, and one sister surviving.
And forgive me if I'm not responding to individual comments, know that they are appreciated.
He was on his third cancer, this time pancreatic. They couldn't attack that one directly due to his age and his bone marrow being largely exhausted from his second cancer, leukemia.
My parents were married for 65 years and lived in the same house in Phoenix for my entire life, moving there in '58 or '59. Now it'll be sold and gone. There's no one left in the neighborhood that I know on a first-name basis, they've all died and the kids - my contemporaries - moved away.
Russet and I were in town two weeks ago for the wedding of my middle niece, she had a ceremony at the Phoenix Zoo. She's a wedding coordinator, I expect she got a good rate. He just wasn't up to attending, so I streamed it via FaceTime to my iPad, Russet stayed home and helped him watch it. My sister took some of my mom's ashes, so she was there symbolically.
Tuesday after work, my brother called to say Dad wasn't going to last long. I got ahold of my boss and told her that the situation had become critical, and did a proverbial midnight run to Phoenix, about a 500 mile drive, getting there about 6am.
Two of his three grandchildren were here last night, we were telling stories of misdeeds and laughing by his bedside and saying our goodbyes.
I hope it brought him some peace.
He had one brother who was killed in a base accident on Guadalcanal during World War 2, four sisters who passed over the last decade or so, and one sister surviving.
And forgive me if I'm not responding to individual comments, know that they are appreciated.
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(I'm glad y'all got to say goodbye, too.)
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I am sorry for your loss.
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(Cool for having the wedding streamed and an iPad to watch it on.)
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I'm glad his pains are done, and sorry I'll only ever know him second-hand.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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My deepest sympathies to you and your family. ♥
HUGS, Jon
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*nods*, *hugs*
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And acccording to science, neither matter nor energy can be created or destroyed - they can just swap jobs occasionally. So the "essence" or "soul" or "personality" of the departed still exists, somewhere in the universe. Maybe the moment when the sleet stops and the roads are drivable again is a gift from him in some way.
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That is a really cool way to think about things, Ace. Thank you so very much. I'm going to send it to my best friend who lost his mother a few months ago.
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*hugs*
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